"It's a work of heart."
Learning, living
& loving the gift.
Parenting today requires more of us than many of us ever imagined. It requires more sight & awareness, more understanding & heart, more skills & abilities even, than most of us may currently have! The great news is, we also live in a time when we are being given exactly what it is that we need to learn, to gain & to develop what is needful in order to fulfill this awe-some responsibility & privilege, as the gift it is given to be - for you & your children.
The resources we share are provided to support you in gaining the understanding & skills you need to free yourself and your family from destructive habits & learned behaviors of the past (with the accompanying emotional bondage that goes with it), learn how to truly communicate effectively & begin today to build, together, the home & joyful relationships you both seek. It absolutely is time!
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real joy | always learning | hope | living love | |
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faith | in this together | fun | truth | |
trust | laughter | hope |
For today's children and the parents that get to raise them.
Do you want to overcome barriers with your child, transform unwanted behavior without manipulation, threats or getting angry, and begin thriving together, not in spite of each other?
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"...Self-government has always been about freedom from emotional bondage. The first step to that freedom is truly knowing who we are. When we know our true identities we are free to think and behave in a way that will bring us happiness. It isn’t until people know who they are that they can they be fully understood by others. This understanding is vital for that freedom to exist..." (Read more)
"Many times people have told me I should have started my “Parenting: A House United” book with the Four Basic Skills. But I always shake my head and say, “I couldn’t. I’m not teaching behavior modification. I’m teaching a change of heart. The family has to discuss why they are going to change their behaviors and get on the same page first.” Nicholeen Peck
"...This occurs when they love and trust their parents and innately understand that their parents' innermost desire is for their success and happiness..."
Are you ready for change
in your home?
If so...GREAT!
We are here to help.
Let's get started!
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You CAN finally stop the fight in your home, truly put an end to the constant frustration & anxiety (for you & your children!) & begin today to have the joyful & fulfilling relationship you BOTH seek. It is possible. And, it absolutely is time.
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What do I do now?
One of the first steps in self-government, is seeing what is, for what it is. Take the FREE Parenting Assessment Course now to learn some things you may never have known about parenting, see where you are personally, identify where you want to go & gain what you need to begin today!
Join us for our next
"Does teaching self-government really matter?"
. . . 5 lessons EVERY parent
needs to know!
Want more support?
Then...
Come gain the understanding, skills & support you need to help you & yours in successfully learning & implementing the basics of teaching self-government in your home. This hands-on learning, workshop style course includes:
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Popular Parenting Methods (What is going on around here?!)
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Family Vision and Mission (What really matters to your family?)
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The 5 Keys of Self-Government (How you will get there!)
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The 5 Teaching Styles (We need these as parents!)
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The 4 Basic Skill...plus 1 (We ALL need these!)
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The Power of Calm (Yes, it is for real.)
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Creating an Effective Family Government (That works!)
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Issues Facing Today's Children (And how you GET to help them!)
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Skills Practice and Q&A (Be ready for some real learning!)
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And much more!
This course will walk you & your spouse through a
week-to-week process of creating a supportive structure &
environment that supports you & your family in learning
& living the gift of a strong family culture. It is time.
Click here or visit our "Upcoming Classes" page to learn more & register!
"This course is what we wish we had available to us when we began learning & teaching self-government in our home!
We are so, so grateful to be able to help make this supportive resource available to you & your family now.
We look forward to sharing with you, what has so blessed our own hearts & home." D.D. Black